Tuesday, July 19, 2011

We had a fight with the Lake but we made up

Lake Powell is a reservoir of memories for our family. Every summer since I've been married (and plenty before that), Jordan's extended family has spent a week at the Lake. My kids have grown up getting to know their cousins on the back of a ski boat, being whipped around in a tube, getting tips on how to get up on one ski or eventually a wake board, fighting the bugs and heat, nursing a sunburn, braiding hair and eating startburst. Many of those cousins are now married-with kids of their own-some have moved to different states, some to different countries. Many a boyfriend-or girlfriend-has been given the "Lake Powell" test. Many failed. (The ones that passed are married). Needless to say, the trips and the cousins have become more sporadic until finally this summer it was decided that "The Summer Breeze" houseboat would be laid to rest.
Unusual circumstances created an unusual opportunity: My little family would have the houseboat for 4 days to ourselves which allowed me to "beg" my extended family to come along.

Jill got right to work making every second count.
It soon became very clear that we were not the only inhabitants on the Southern Breeze. The rodent population had obviously sent word that a giant family reunion would be held on our houseboat the week we were there. We had little choice but to share but Jill wanted to take it one step further and invite them to join us. The row of fly swatters lined up at the entrance to their hideout was Jill's proverbial "white flag."

Emma and Jill
Yup. That's my brother.
What would I do without this boy?

Jordan looks like he might be suffering with a little heat stroke.
When I first met Brandt (Kelli's hubby) he was at BYU on a swimming scholarship. So it was only natural that he would be trying to pass his skills on to his youngest daughter.
This picture is proof to Nick's mom that there was sunscreen applied at least once while he was in our care. Truth be known...those boys took much better care of everyone else on this trip than any of us did of them.
Nick brought the GoPro to capture all of the action. It was hours of entertainment for these two. Watching them try to strap it to anything that moved was hours of entertainment for me.


Why didn't Nick wear the GoPro?
It's hard to focus on a goofball.

Erick's friend, Megan, has the determined face.

Proof. Proof that Jordan can still ski. Proof that he is still super-hot when he skis. And proof that we got the boat out once before the Lake tried to take it from us.
Jill won the swimsuit competition. For most swimsuits. And most swimsuits worn (or taken off) in one day.
She liked to have someone rinse out her suit in the lake and then lay it on the rock to dry.


Brandt is Master of the Grill. Why does everything taste better when it's eaten outside?

This is usually my favorite time of day on the Lake. I love the serenity and the calm. But that ominous dark cloud on the left of the picture means that on this particular night, the only calm we are going to get is The Calm before The Storm.
There is a sense of mystery and adventure in the wind. It can blow in a feeling of excitement and even fear. Over the years we have discovered that when you are on the Lake the wind is not your friend.
As the white caps began to crash upon the beach they also began to toss and rock the houseboat as it threatened to rip us free from our anchors and smash us into the side of the rock. As Jordan struggled to steady the houseboat, I looked out to see the two rented wave runners pitched and heaved away from the security of the shore and our two 17 year old boys trying desperately to secure them. In a moment, mother nature-in all of her wrath and fury-began to overpower those ambitious, brave boys. There was a brief, but gut-wrenching, cry for help and the forces of family untied to bring the wave-runners (and my boys) on land and to safety. The relief was short-lived, however, when we realized that the efforts of those trying to keep and bail water out of the ski boat were becoming more and more futile. Even with "all hands on deck" we couldn't keep up with the huge surge of water that accompanied each wave.
Unfortunately, we lost the fight. But as we listened to impassioned distress calls over the radio of missing people and separated families, we were immensely grateful that all that seemed lost was a ski boat. A knock on the door minutes later confirmed this as two teenage girls separated from their family and unable to get to shelter, asked if they could bunk with us for the night. As it turns out, one of the girls was Kelli's neighbor who confided that upon seeing Kelli and her family, knew that their prayer to be led to a houseboat where they would find safety and refuge with good people, had been answered.
The morning after dawned so beautiful and clear that it was like a big apology letter from an embarrassed Mother Nature.
There is nothing like sinking your boat to bring people together.
Which was good, because that was just the first day........

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

I'm a little bit country...

It's no secret. I'm a hick. Though I don't make myself fried bologna sandwiches anymore, I still love a good hot dog and pigs in blankets are a real treat. When I was young, my grandpa used to tell me he would "box my ears" if I didn't stop sneaking up on him and grandma was very fond of saying, "laws a macy." The car I most desired and coveted in high school was a truck and when a friend told me her dad bought a BMW, I thought she was talking about stereo equipment. I still don't know how to pronounce, 'Burberry', and didn't even know what it was until my nieces enlightened me. (They've enlightened me on a lot of things.) Target is my favorite store but if I want to go high end, I hit TJ Maxx. So it should come as no surprise that I feel right at home at the rodeo.

Most of my chil'en got a little dose of country passed on to them as well. Now if I could just get my boys to wear Wranglers.



Speaking of good hot dogs....Flippin' Burgers is the place!
But it's their cheese fries that I can not live without.

What do you think..? Does he look tough enough to you? Is there really even a question?
My crew..L to R: Pat, Jodi, Hailee, Brittney and Sarah.
I love the girl's shirts. They can rock the plaid.
My, oh my I am a little bit country.
Bucking broncos.... the 'rock and roll' version of the rodeo.
And...the country version.
Either way..I'm content.

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Makes me happy

Flowers from my garden and fresh eggs from Shannon's chickens. Makes me happy.

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

God Bless America


Happy Fourth! I love my country. I love having an excuse to get together and celebrate.
I love grilling. I love hot dogs. I love ribs. I especially love anything with barbecue sauce. And I love that these two are doing the cooking.

I love my baby brother.
I love my beautiful baby sister.
I love that she found a good, solid all-american guy.
I {heart} my daughter.
I love this picture. Kelli lighting sparklers. I hope you're all feeling the love....

Thursday, June 30, 2011

Bawston

I love Boston. Friends that have lived there, gone to school there, and visited there have been telling me I would. I could't really see what the allure was..until a couple of weeks ago when Brittney and I had the good fortune of accompanying Jordan for one of his insulation conferences.

This was the weather in Boston when we arrived. It was a crazy, beautiful storm.
But the next morning dawned bright and clear for mine and Brittney's guided tour to "Little Italy" in Boston's North End. They introduced us to quaint storefronts being run by the direct descendants of the original owners and often offering the same pure, antiquated goods and services.
This store offered various coffees weighed and ground while you waited and bins and bins full of nuts and herbs and teas.



We visited The Old North Church with it's "box pews." The idea being that in the dead of winter you could bring a bucket of hot coals into the pew with you and the confined space would offer more warmth. This particular church was the one that Paul Revere is said to have hung his telling two lanterns to indicate that the British army was traveling by sea. (Remember Henry Wadsworth Longfellow's poem, Paul Revere's Ride?)

As much as the Bostonians love their history I think it's very possible that they love their hockey team more. Their Boston Bruins had made it to the finals this year and they were a proud, enthusiastic town.
Paul Revere is apparently a big Bruins fan as well.
There were a lot of dog tags in this little memorial garden. It was quite sobering.

That evening the IA group loaded four large touring buses and headed to the JFK Library for the evening dinner and entertainment. We had a police escort the entire way. The motorcycle unit would tag team each other riding ahead to secure our easy passage. It was so cool but seemed to anger many of the locals. There was many a bird flying as we passed the (stopped) traffic. Upon our arrival we were greeted with the band/flag performance. I could't help but wonder: who the heck did we think we were? It's not very often that insulation contractors and manufacturers get police escorts and privates dinners in a presidential library.

I loved having Brittney with me! Jordan was in meetings all day and even when he was physically present, the phone was his companion. I was so glad (and I know Jordan was too) I had someone to talk to and hang out with. Brittney was as enthusiastic about Boston as I was but she was relentless about wanting to go to a Boston Red Sox game while we were there. I was thinking the same thing but I just didn't see when or how we would fit it in.
There was one night on the agenda that they said was a "surprise." We waited anxiously to see what it would be. There was speculation that it was a concert in the park. There was not one part of me that wanted to go to a concert in the park, and so when we got to our room and saw the bag of peanuts, cracker jacks, bottles of coke, and Red Sox hats we were elated!
The night started out with a DuckTour. Loved the DuckTour. Please do a DuckTour if you're ever in Boston.

This was Brittney's reaction when she found out we were going to a Sox game.
Fenway Park is the coolest! I'm not kidding. The park still looks very similar to when it opened in 1912.

The famous Fenway Frank. We had an open snack bar for the entirety of the game. I've never eaten so much crap. I loved every bite of my hot dog, my fries, my mozzarella sticks, my lobster roll, my chicken fingers, my hot chocolate and my unlimited refills of diet coke.



Beautiful. And they won.
Our Harvard guides were current students and very entertaining. I could't help but think of the show, Psyche.
Once again-beautiful.
Our last day ended with a trip to Faneuil Marketplace. The meatball sub that Brittney got was the perfect ending to our trip. I love the incredible history that permeates every corner of Boston. Faneuil Marketplace has been around since 1742. Amazing.

The Founding Fathers met here. Although I'm not sure what "here" is. I will pay closer attention next time. And there will be a next time.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Miles

My sister sent me this photo she took on her iphone the other day. I love it so much I just had to share it. When Jodi married Pat last August, she became a step-mother to 3 more children. (Jodi has 2 of her own). Miles is the youngest of those step-children. Miles was adopted at birth and is one of the most loving and content children I know. I know that it helps that he feels so much consistency from his dad and that Jodi is as warm and loving a mother to Pat's children as she is to her own. At times I have wondered if he even knows that he is different. He's black. They're all white. Does he feel that? Does it bother him?

Miles drew a chalk family portrait on the driveway. He is flanked by Jodi and Pat. (Pat's easy to pick out and draw because he is bald). When Jodi asked Miles why he was a different color than everyone else he told her it was because he was! "Because I'm BLACK, Jodi!" Like..DUH?!
So he is aware. And his smile is just as big as everyone else's in the picture. Just because you're a different color doesn't mean that you feel less loved or less a part of the family. Family isn't about being the same...because we're not. Family means having differences and cherishing and celebrating them together.